Get girlfriend into outdoor activities?
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I’ve been in a relationship for just over 3 years, I’m a local pro golfer In SA, I’m also big into bass fishing, I love being outside playing golf, fishing, camping going out on my boat blah blah blah… But she never wants to go with or try. She always wants to travel and party, what can I do to get her into outdoor activities.
I’m not big in the party/drinking vibe.
Please any decent advice please.
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put the kitchen outside
Yeah. She is not the girl you should be with, find one with the same interests
Try asking her things she would like to do that are active. You may have to try less “active” things to get her into the hang of it. Tell her you woul love it if she joined you for a nature walk or something. Pick some flowers for her. Be romantic about it.
If you really like her then make a compromise that if you go to a part she’ll at least TRY something outdoors-y like. Also try going to natural hot springs
ok to start tie her to a chair and throw it outside then take away her credit card
You either need to appreciate that you have different interests, leave her with hers and keeo yours to yourself, or you need to move on,
If you want to stay together, maybe look for an activity you can both do together. Maybe something like dancing, or go karting. Something that combines an interest from the 2 of you.
You need to allow each other space to do your own thing, its healthy, but still have common goals and interests.
She’s probably just not into it, otherwise she would have done these things with you by now. And she is obviously not a homebody.
3 years is a long time, so you probably have an open/honest relationship. Talk to her one last time straight up and tell her you really want her to do those things with you. Have her give a yes or no answer as to whether or not she is interested in doing even one of them with you.
If not, you cannot change her and will have to decide how important it is for you to have a partner to share those experiences with.
Good luck to you both! =)